No guy spends his time scrolling through a bunch of ratchet girls' photos if he’s not trying (or at least hoping) to get with her. Any guy who refuses to acknowledge your relationship anywhere other than in private is a creeper.He should be interested in photos of you, not some supermodel from Australia who wouldn’t even give him the time of day in the first place. He’s not your boyfriend if he won’t even hold your hand when you’re walking down the street. If he's fidgety or avoiding eye contact with you, something is up.When he tells you he can’t hang out, and yet his Snapchat story clearly shows him hanging out at the bar, you know he’s lying.
(Hint: If it bothers you to the point of madness that one of your ladies is seeing other men, you may be closer to monogamy than you think.) Dating multiple partners in the microcosm of your employment biosphere or local after-work habitat can lead to an unsafe imbalance in the environment.
Again, in theory, women may agree to be members of your far-flung tribe of lovers, but proximity breeds territoriality, and has the potential to put your sex life, your happiness, your safety Really, do we even have to remind you about this one? A) It’s the right thing to do, and B) karma a way of hunting bad dogs down.
You’re young, reasonably attractive and exclusivity is not on your agenda—or at least, it’s not for now. Two of the seven deadly sins are lust and gluttony. Just as when a girl says, “No,” when she’s not feeling in the moment and some misguided guys interpret it as a red flag to his bull, when certain women hear, “No relationship,” it triggers a, “Not now, but I can change him,” mechanism in their psyches. If she’s looking for a commitment and you knowingly proceed so you have something to play with for a while, you might be risking a "Bobbitt" in your future, and you kind of deserve it. Don’t leave souvenirs of your sexcapades around for others to find.
For you, the canine life is not a viable option since juggling multiple relationships is akin to juggling knives, and if you're not careful, you might end up with a dagger protruding from your toe... So maybe you’re no Boy Scout, but if you believe in keeping your karma at least nominally clean, dating, hooking up—or whatever you want to call it—shouldn’t be about how many notches you can carve in the bedpost. So, here’s how to sow your wild oats without being a (man) ho.
He’s bored and this is the only time he doesn't have anything "better" to do.