Ten to fifteen minutes with an old fart of 80 or older goes on forever. At this age you have to know each other well enough to communicate.
I tell you one thing, I would not take my clothes off and prance around in high heels and sunglasses. He might confide that he needs Viagra, or that he can’t get it up; you might have some issues. If they’re only thinking about jumping into bed because they’ve taken me out to dinner, forget it.
Do your online dating with a friend, grandchild, daughter or son. Kayli read me her profile and I made corrections, and vice versa. Sometimes you get nervous, but if you keep expectations low it may build into something beautiful. I like to listen to men talk and enjoy the difference between the way I think and they think.
Find someone single who will go through it with you. Meet at a restaurant and leave from there, I never had anyone pick me up at my home. I didn’t fall in love, but I did find steady male friends.
They feel protective of their privacy and peace of mind, but they haven't become eunuchs or hermits. But offered a chance to reconnect with someone from your past — dinner with your high school steady, for example — you might just surprise yourself by winding up in bed.